It is a virtue to be nice and helpful. However, we have to protect ourselves from those who intend to take undue advantage of us.
How to protect ourselves?
- Leave everything on divine power
- Be assertive
- Learn from experience
- Have confidence
- Stand for self
- Set clear boundaries
- Learn to say no politely but firmly
- Trust your intuition
- Know our Limits
- Communicate clearly
- Have self compassion
- Priortize things
- Introspect
- Reflect on instances (retrospectively)
- Set your goals and keep moving towards that
- Learn to move away
- Have trust in yourself
- Do not pay attention to what others will say
- Work for your inner happiness
- observe, analyze, reflect, and act
- Move in the company of people with same quality

Bharti Raizada